Can we talk about the mod who flagged my post for saying "kill" in a gardening group?
Last week I posted in a Facebook gardening group about how to "kill" the aphids on my tomatoes in Fresno, and a mod named Dana flagged it and told me to "use kinder language or leave." I pushed back and said it's a bug, not a person, and she muted me for 3 days anyway. I get that words matter, but when did plain gardening talk turn into a minefield? Has anyone else gotten slapped for normal words in a hobby group?