My old password strategy was just adding a new number each time, so password1 turned into password2, then password3. I was basically doing IT's job for them by counting up in plain sight. My guy never called me out in person but he sent a company wide email about "reusing old passwords" and I just stared at my screen like he was reading my diary. The breach checker thing scared me straight too, one of mine showed up and I changed everything that night. Password manager felt like a chore for maybe a week and now I could not go back.

We went through almost the same thing with my daughter, except she was just not eating and we had no clue why for weeks. What finally helped us was asking the special ed teacher to do a quick observation during lunch, not just recess or class, because that's when the problem shows up. If your son's aide is already eating with him in the hallway and it's working, ask about getting that written into his IEP as a lunch accommodation so it does not disappear next year when staff changes. Also worth checking if the school has a quiet room or can let him eat a few minutes early before the noise starts. Some cafeterias will also let kids wear headphones or ear defenders if the school allows it, and a lot of parents do not know they can just ask for that. The full lunchbox was the only sign something was wrong and nobody caught it, which is the part that still bugs me.