TIL I had to choose between banning a friend or getting banned myself from a D&D group

I was in a local D&D group in Denver where one guy kept cheating on his rolls, and the DM said I had to either call him out publicly or stop coming to sessions. I picked calling him out, but the whole group sided with him and I got banned instead. Was it better to keep the peace or stand on principle when everyone else looks the other way?

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janac5917d ago

That really sucks, sorry that happened. Was the cheating obvious or was it more subtle stuff?

emerycarr17d ago

4 missed calls and a text saying "working late" while she was tagged at a bar two blocks from my place. That's how I found out, @janac59. It was super obvious once I started paying attention. She'd get weird about her phone and had new "work friends" she never mentioned before. The gaslighting was the worst part, making me think I was crazy for noticing. Honestly, if it feels off, it probably is. You ever have that gut feeling that ended up being right?