Watch this happen everywhere. At family dinners, bring up real money issues and you get awkward silence. In community groups, question how things are run and people say you're causing trouble. Workplaces use the same playbook, labeling honest talk as bad for morale. It creates a culture where everyone avoids the real problems instead of solving them.

The mental load of always checking dates, @the_val, sucks.

Heard sustainable farming talks get this pushback all the time!