Yup, read that most experts say stretching beats adjustments anyway.

That "lifelong apprentice" idea is spot on. I did the same with my brother, and now he's the first person I call for help on a big job.

Isn't the sound part of the war, though?

Honestly I used to skip clay masks but ngl after a trip like that they're the only thing that helps. Totally changed my mind on them for pulling out that city gunk.

Scott.abby, that "one thing they hated" part of your rule might be where the problem slips back in. Hated is such a final word, you know? It shuts down talk instead of opening it up. Why not say "one thing that confused you" or "one part that fell flat"? It points to the book, not the person who liked it. Didn't we all see how shouting starts when people get personal? A little change like that keeps your structure but cuts the chance for a fight.