Just survived my first coding job where the 'sink or swim' mentality nearly drowned me
Tbh, I joined this startup as a junior dev fresh out of a bootcamp, super pumped to learn React and Node.js. But within weeks, I was handed a full-stack feature with a deadline that even senior devs would struggle with. My manager kept saying 'figure it out' without any guidance, and when I asked for help, I was labeled as not being a 'self-starter'. It led to all-nighters, constant anxiety, and my code quality plummeted because I was just hacking things together. I almost quit coding entirely because I felt so incompetent and isolated, especially working remote with zero mentorship. Looking back, I realized the company had a culture of throwing juniors into the deep end without life jackets. For other beginners, please vet the onboarding process and ask about mentorship during interviews. Don't let a bad first experience define your career, there are supportive teams out there.